Our conduct and influence matters
I recently had the blessing of engaging in a meaningful conversation with a young lady about the joy of living life with intention and purpose. As we shared perspectives, we reflected on the values that help a person “show up well” in life—knowing who you are in Christ, practicing honest self-examination, and being willing to do new and unfamiliar things when necessary.
What stood out most was her growing awareness: “I’m learning that just because I can, doesn’t mean I always should.” That simple yet profound statement reflects spiritual maturity—learning to align ability with wisdom and discernment.
As I listened, I found myself recalling a prayer I prayed long before marriage or parenthood: “Lord, bless me with a family where I can have conversations with my children like my father had with me.” In that moment, I realized I was witnessing an answer to that prayer.
Despite my shortcomings and moments of uncertainty, God has been faithful. He’s blessed my wife and me, not only with three opportunities to grow as parents, but also with additional bonus children relationships that continue to stretch and refine us.
Proverbs 22:6 reminds us, “Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.” When we read the full context of proverbs chapter 22, we see instructions that extend to how we should live as people with good reputation, character and humility. Our lives become an example as our words align with our conduct.
How we show up in life is so much more than just how we train up our children. When we walk in Christ with intention, we don’t just teach truth—we model it. And in doing so, we reflect Christ not only to our children, but to everyone God places in our path. How can you be more intentional and on purpose with showing up in ways that reflect Christ?